Dashwood Dayafter aka Harley Lilith Noir aka Ardeth Blood

I have been dealing with computer troubles in real life for the last while, and now I finally get a day where I can be in SL only to have it crash on me 3 times under 5minutes. I think that is a record even for SL.

And that would be the trouble with trying to have a double life, balancing the one you are living and the one you are creating.

Friend of mine is Wiccan. She teaches Wicca in real life.
I got her to come into sl. She wants to teach Wicca in sl, through the newspaper.
I asked my editor if we were hiring, and explained the situation to her. She told me pretty much what I expected, "sorry we only deal with sl issues."
Okay fine that is no surprise. Kinda good too in a way, as my friend is more then not misinformed. Her heart is in the right place, but she really should not be teaching.
So that is half the situation, the res… Continue

I got asked why so many names?
I joined other Ning.com sites as Harley Lilith Noir (real life)
Then when I found the SL Ning sites it automatically signed me up as that but my SL name is
Dashwood Dayafter.
And Ardeth Blood is the main character I have with hardcore Vamps Prods., (product… Continue

I have been given the chance to do a freelance piece about bad relationships. My question is to myself if it should be done from my sl point of view or my rl point of view? I have even thought of mixing the two.
That might get confusing to some, maybe even myself. Given that my latest relationship crossed both rl and sl it would make sense. But how bad is bad?
As a writer you want to use every resource you have. As someone's romantic partner you want to only tell so much.
Turning down this chanc… Continue

Just a little note to say hi and point you to the large list of websites I circle (and try my best to keep fresh weekly)
Like everything in life we have cycles when we are too busy to blog and cycles when we have too much time on our hands and blogging is about the only thing to do.
I am addicted to blogging, coffee, and men.

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